Delusional Thinking
Many children live under an unfortunate delusion regarding their parents which does them great harm. They believe they can blame their parents for their existence on earth. One often hears the remark: “Of course my parents must take care of me; after all, they have brought me into the world. It is not my fault that I am here.”
Likewise, many parents act like they own their children. Forcing them to abide by and adopt their erroneous beliefs, beating their children into submission, molding them in the most grotesque ways and expecting them to re-pay them with their future for their parental services. Our western society demands that parents must not be less than perfect when it comes to caring for their children and any slight imperfections could lead to the worst forms of condemnations from others and even the institutions of Government itself.
Nothing more foolish could be observed. Every human being is here on earth either at his own request or because of his own fault! The parents merely provide the possibility for an incarnation, nothing more. And every incarnated soul must be grateful for the opportunity offered! Parents on the other hand have to be reminded that they are not God and did not create the incarnating soul. They have an obligation to support the vessel to maturity and when the vessel becomes a teenager, they must allow the child to begin his journey to self-discovery.
The soul of the child is only the guest of its parents, and the parent is a temporary host. This fact alone gives sufficient explanation to enable one to know that in reality a child can claim no rights whatsoever in regard to its parents and vise versa! Neither has a spiritual claim on the other!
Spiritually the child is a complete personality in itself! It has received nothing from its parents apart from its physical body which it needs as a tool for its activity on this gross material earth, i.e. only a dwelling for the use of the already independent soul. Still, through procreation, the parents assume the obligation to take care of the dwelling place they have thus created, and to maintain it until the soul which has taken possession of it is itself capable of undertaking its maintenance. The natural development of the body will indicate when the moment for this has come. Whatever is done beyond this is a gift from the parents.
Therefore, children should finally cease to rely upon their parents, and would do better to think of standing upon their own feet as soon as possible. The parents must release their children and desist from co-dependent behaviors that stifle the independence of the child. You must know and understand that there are in the immediate beyond a great number of souls standing ready and awaiting the opportunity to reincarnate on earth. They are mostly human souls bound by threads of karma, which they are seeking to redeem in a new earth-life.
Why was I born to my parents?
From the start of my conscious spiritual journey, this question lingered incessantly in my mind. I wanted to understand the karmic threads that bound me to an unloving, abusive and egotistical environment. I wanted to know what wrongs I committed in my previous lives to warrant daily persecution and injustice. My answer came through visions and past life regressions.
12th-Century Mongolia
The life that preceded my current life took place in in 12th century Mongolia. I was a well sought after high priestess who lived in a tribal group, traveling across the mountains and steppes, hunting for their food and living in tents. One day, our small but peaceful village was invaded, and I was captured and held prisoner by the invading group. The soul who was my mother at the time had long sought after my demise as we were archrivals for many years. I was held within the camp of a group that would later in this life be my birth family, parents, brothers and sisters. During my recollection, I felt the deep sadness and longing for escape. My life was cut short in that life after the soul who is my mother in this current life ordered the soul who is my ex-husband in this life to have me killed.
When I came to, from this regression, it all made sense. The deep pain and emotional response of that life was still very present in me. These emotions bound me to the invading camp and to the souls now playing my birth family in this life. To my physical body, this is my birth family, but to my soul, this is a karmic tie that must be released. I must complete my escape and release the fear of being killed or my life cut short by others. I must release the fear of rejection, take my rightful place in the universe and complete my soul’s destiny.
Incarnation and the Laws of Homogenous Species
Incarnation is subject to the Law of Attraction of Homogeneous Species. Children are born to parents because of karma and sometimes, it may be a soul who is often near the prospective mother. Many an evil can be averted as soon as human beings really understand the whole process and consciously concern themselves with it. As it is, they frivolously waste their time, attending games and dances, giving parties, and paying little attention to the important event which is being prepared during this period, and which later on will forcefully intervene in their whole lives.
Many people pray, asking for selfish wishes and material things instead of consciously take a guiding hand in these matters, by strengthening the good and lessen the evil beings being incarnated into the world.
If this has become clear and people still carelessly and thoughtlessly enter into a union, having sex and thoughtlessly having children, they deserve nothing better than that a human spirit who will penetrate into their circle with the risk of bringing only disturbance, if not evil.
