Bringing an end to Gender War. A profound insight on sexual abuse.
One day during a session, a client asked me… How do you heal from sexual abuse?
My response…. Sexual abuse is a wound. You cannot take back the event but you can release the believe systems that were developed as a result of the abuse. Your issues of trust, your views and expectations about men. Sexual abuse calls on women to change their expectations of men. A man who does something like this is sick at the core. When we stop viewing men as sex objects, when we stop putting them on a pedestal as macho bread winners. When we stop requiring them to take care of our emotional needs, when we humanize them and empathize with their wounds, when we stop putting our dads in the space where God is meant to be, we will release the gender wars and remove the trauma of sexual vengeance!!!
Sexual abuse is a prevailing problem that shows the imbalance between male and female and over time has given rise to the notion of the battle of the sexes. This battle or conflict is not just about men and women — it is about the balance of all polarities — religion and science, east and west, rich and poor. The world itself has its own kind of pH level, and wherever it is imbalanced, conflict ensues. In the same way that an overbalance of acidic body tissue becomes an environment for viruses and cancer to thrive, so do social imbalances result in upheaval, corruption and at their worst, war.
Human beings are unconsciously addicted to conflict. We long for peace individually and globally, but our collective low frequency ensures that we keep reinforcing the patterns of conflict. Nowhere is this seen more clearly than in our relationships. The conflict between male and female is part of the oldest wound there is, and it is hot-wired into our genetics. You are genetically sub-programmed to defend yourself from the opposite sex, and until your frequency rises above the emotional gravitational pull of the opposite sex, you can never really know peace. This is the deep irony of the Shadow pf sexual abuse — to bring an end to conflict, you have to give up your attraction to the opposite sex. Sex and war are deeply interrelated. This is a profound and perhaps disturbing truth for many people, and especially so because there is nothing we can do about it. Human sexuality can only be transcended through physiological mutation, which is dependent on the extent of your connection to the higher planes of reality.
When we stop seeing a person as their gender and truly move our consciousness to seeing the humanness, the soul, the entity more fully as a collective, — the Transfiguration of the human body into what the ancients called the rainbow body or the body of glory will begin. This Transfiguration will eventually overtake our entire species. As our skin cells learn to capture light, our digestive system will gradually become defunct, since light contains the ultimate nutrients for the subtle body. As far as the pH of the body is concerned, this spiritualization of the physical form will gradually weaken the extremes of the pH scale, thereby reducing the acidity and alkalinity of the body. Eventually, as all the solutions within the body become neutralized, the hydrogen ions that form the very basis of the pH scale will evaporate and the body will disappear altogether. On a collective level, this process is the last to fully mutate in the coming shift in global consciousness. Only when peace is recognized on earth as the natural state of our collective consciousness can the future vehicle of humanity be built. In other words, the myth of world peace is the pretext for building the future body that will take us beyond form itself.